 Re: Body Image Issues
I think it comes down to it is in the eye of the beholder, i to am a size 20, and have always been overweight, and my hubby is a 32 inch waist and and hot as hell as far as i am concerned, but we both deal with self image issues, i don't think any of us will ever be totally happy with ourselves. But the one thing i can say there are a lot more men out there who like meat on there woman, and there are a lot of us in the size 20 catagory in the life style, so therefor someone is sleeping with us, or we wouldn't be here.
I was just thinking back over the past 8 yrs, and in this lifestyle and the BDSM lifestyle, most {90% are over weight} . we are the majority, so don't worry about it. You will find a Female who you will be comfortable with and she will be comfortable with you.
and like flkyscouple said she will be new, and he may react a little more, or less. It is new, but don't worry you are his main squeeze and it is you that he will go home with not her. this is just sex without strings not love.
Chantal
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