The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Body Image Issues - worried about being naked in front of other women

friskymonkey · 10-29-2006, 11:18 AM

Hi crazycatz,

I'll chime in and second what everyone else has said, communicate and love yourself. Trust in your partner's love.

My reply is maybe too practical and obvious but...

I'm not sure whether you and your partner have a particular woman in mind for your MFF? I ask because on the website where I play (BayCouples.com), there are lots of plus sized women. Why not swing with a BBW? I always notice how sexy and confident and gorgeous they are. So, it's possible that the woman you wind up playing with will be your size or bigger.

Like many, many (all?) women, I sometimes have body image issues, too. I diet/exercised/obsessed for weeks before my first swing party because I kept thinking about how everyone would see me naked. Afterward, I felt silly because at the party when things started heating up and clothes started coming off, the size of my butt was the last thing I was thinking about!

Hope your MFF adventure goes off as well as your MMF did!

10-29-2006, 11:18 AM	#5 (permalink)
friskymonkey Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 20 Location: SF bay area Status: couple	Re: Body Image Issues Hi crazycatz, I'll chime in and second what everyone else has said, communicate and love yourself. Trust in your partner's love. My reply is maybe too practical and obvious but... I'm not sure whether you and your partner have a particular woman in mind for your MFF? I ask because on the website where I play (BayCouples.com), there are lots of plus sized women. Why not swing with a BBW? I always notice how sexy and confident and gorgeous they are. So, it's possible that the woman you wind up playing with will be your size or bigger. Like many, many (all?) women, I sometimes have body image issues, too. I diet/exercised/obsessed for weeks before my first swing party because I kept thinking about how everyone would see me naked. Afterward, I felt silly because at the party when things started heating up and clothes started coming off, the size of my butt was the last thing I was thinking about! Hope your MFF adventure goes off as well as your MMF did!