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The rules were there so we both knew where we stood and the rules were fine then but now they no longer fit our situation and they as in all rules can be broken/Bent(if both partys agree)
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The thing is here that both parties don't agree. Yes at times in certain situations you can get her to agree it might happen but she always goes back to NO in the light of day. My advice, stop the pressure, it is not helping the situation. She isn't ready, that is clear. If you truly put her first and won't do anything without agreement, then that is the end of the discussion for the time being.