 Re: What to do!!!
friskymonkey
We do communicate very well always have done so that has never been an issue!! i do have the hots for the other women but i only want to satisfy my own lust, i also stated that i told my wife i wanted to have full swop long before she came onto the scene!!so its not just because it her!!
I have alweay put her before myself in all aspects and it would be nice if she would just once put me first!! but hey i shouldnt really complain i have a great wife who loves me and i love her.
She owes me nothing,i would just like her to open a bit more and trust herself and to stop being so pessimistic all the time!! and to make up her mind instead of saying one thing then in the very same sentence saying something totaly different!!..
Maybe i am asking too much but i have been honest with her.
@JTcamp05
I went into swinging for her, i wasnt into it as such but now i have licked blood i want more!! i have done a lot of research into swinging and i want to progress and not stay treading on the same spot!! I want to her to have fun and she has been having fun!!
The rules were there so we both knew where we stood and the rules were fine then but now they no longer fit our situation and they as in all rules can be broken/Bent(if both partys agree)
I trust my wife 110% and she says she trustīs me!! she has also said if i go and have my fun then only with a condom which is a must anyway, she even likes the idea of watching and doing 3/4 some... dont ask i dont know either what she wants!!
Many thanks again peeps your helping me get my head around this situation!!
At the moment i am thinking of jacking in swinging as i feel its all one sided she can, i cant, but i like swinging!!so i would be cutting my nose off to spite my face!! (an English saying)
Steve
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