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Old 10-28-2006, 11:43 AM   #2 (permalink)
ShellyM
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Default Re: What to do!!!

Okay Steve,
I don't think you guys are ready to take on full swap at all. Your wife has numerous conflicting feelings going on in her head that need to be addressed before any full play is initiated. I would hate to be a couple that was playing, and the wife was yes, no, maybe, maybe in the lounge, maybe not, yes.....that would drive me to frustration. So, I would suggest that you and your wife sit down and have a serious heart to heart discussion about what she is and isn't okay with. Be very careful in how you talk to her. If you go telling her how you have this INTENSE connection with this other woman like never before she is probably going to be very threatened. So talk things over, and go from there.
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