The Swingers Board - View Single Post - I want the wife, but my wife isn't ready to do the husband

Darkblue · 10-28-2006, 10:22 AM

Rules are good when you start swinging, had them and some we still do! but rules are there to be broken/bent, we have met a couple where the Chemistry between myself and the female is huge never have i felt chemistry so strong, and we both want to do full swop, now considering this i told my wife weeks ago i was interested in this and she was more of a NO but never really said anything against it st the time, now we/i am this far she has said she wont do Full swop with him and i can with her but she doesnt like the idea, in the same sentence she also says she does like the idea of Full swop as it gets her going as well!! but she cant get over the boundry she has set herself??she fancys a 3some or 4some as well.. I know women cant make up their mind but this is doing my head in!!! she tells the other guy that she wont do full swop with him, then tells him she needs more time,She also tells me that she might when she is in the Club?

The idea of someone else screwing the wife is appealing to me...
The wife has a BI side of her as well and would like to take it further, i am far from against this,i think its great, Now if she has sex with another women isnt that more or less the same as a Full swop as i wont be taking part in their fun...I am not BI so i wont be playing with him..
I feel that i am moving forward and she is standing still but i also believe she wants to do a full swop but cant jump over her own shadow!!

We trust each other 100% and talk about everything and i mean everything!! we have no secrets we never have had.

I am also her first man and she hasnt been with another man..

So what do i do??

Any idea´s!

Steve

10-28-2006, 10:22 AM	#1 (permalink)
Darkblue Steve and Susanne Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 229 Location: Germany Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:darkblue	I want the wife, but my wife isn't ready to do the husband Rules are good when you start swinging, had them and some we still do! but rules are there to be broken/bent, we have met a couple where the Chemistry between myself and the female is huge never have i felt chemistry so strong, and we both want to do full swop, now considering this i told my wife weeks ago i was interested in this and she was more of a NO but never really said anything against it st the time, now we/i am this far she has said she wont do Full swop with him and i can with her but she doesnt like the idea, in the same sentence she also says she does like the idea of Full swop as it gets her going as well!! but she cant get over the boundry she has set herself??she fancys a 3some or 4some as well.. I know women cant make up their mind but this is doing my head in!!! she tells the other guy that she wont do full swop with him, then tells him she needs more time,She also tells me that she might when she is in the Club? The idea of someone else screwing the wife is appealing to me... The wife has a BI side of her as well and would like to take it further, i am far from against this,i think its great, Now if she has sex with another women isnt that more or less the same as a Full swop as i wont be taking part in their fun...I am not BI so i wont be playing with him.. I feel that i am moving forward and she is standing still but i also believe she wants to do a full swop but cant jump over her own shadow!! We trust each other 100% and talk about everything and i mean everything!! we have no secrets we never have had. I am also her first man and she hasnt been with another man.. So what do i do?? Any idea´s! Steve