The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Was she Cheating or am I just over reacting?

**Alura** · 10-25-2006, 10:06 PM

The first thing y'all need to do, in my opinion, is to define your relationship in the light of swinging. Just what is acceptable? Of course, there will always be unexpected situations; we can't forsee everything.

The following quote is from "Faithful Reader" in the "ask amy" column in the Tulsa World Tuesday, Oct. 24, 2006:

"If you promise your spouse one kind of marriage and then help yourself to something different without telling her — that's cheating."

I considered changing our signature line but like Will Rogers better.

Amy added:

"...people who promise to have one kind of relationship and then cheat their way around their own promises aren't in a functional relationship."

Mr. Alura

10-25-2006, 10:06 PM	#11 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,144 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: Cheating or just over reacting? The first thing y'all need to do, in my opinion, is to define your relationship in the light of swinging. Just what is acceptable? Of course, there will always be unexpected situations; we can't forsee everything. The following quote is from "Faithful Reader" in the "ask amy" column in the Tulsa World Tuesday, Oct. 24, 2006: "If you promise your spouse one kind of marriage and then help yourself to something different without telling her — that's cheating." I considered changing our signature line but like Will Rogers better. Amy added: "...people who promise to have one kind of relationship and then cheat their way around their own promises aren't in a functional relationship." Mr. Alura
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