The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Was she Cheating or am I just over reacting?

MoonLightKiss · 10-25-2006, 08:02 PM

I agree with the others here, this sounds like more of a communication issue than anything. You met on a swingers site, and so I am assuming you were both very open minded sexually when you first met. This being said, UNLESS you SPECIFICALLY stated that you were not comfortable with certain things BEFORE they were done, then it might be safe to assume that she thought it was okay. That does not mean you do not have a right to your feelings. What it does mean is that you both need to sit down calmly and communicate over all of it. Taking a break from swinging is a good idea, as is deciding what you are both comfortable with. Then you can both decide is staying together or separating is best.

All the best
MLK

10-25-2006, 08:02 PM	#8 (permalink)
MoonLightKiss Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 415 Location: Kentucky Status: Couple	Re: Cheating or just over reacting? I agree with the others here, this sounds like more of a communication issue than anything. You met on a swingers site, and so I am assuming you were both very open minded sexually when you first met. This being said, UNLESS you SPECIFICALLY stated that you were not comfortable with certain things BEFORE they were done, then it might be safe to assume that she thought it was okay. That does not mean you do not have a right to your feelings. What it does mean is that you both need to sit down calmly and communicate over all of it. Taking a break from swinging is a good idea, as is deciding what you are both comfortable with. Then you can both decide is staying together or separating is best. All the best MLK
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