 Re: Cheating or just over reacting?
Well, I'll be honest. When you met her she was already involved in the lifestyle, correct? You met on a swingers site. So now that she is your girlfriend your expectations have changed. I'm not criticizing you, I'm trying to understand the situation. Now, I don't think what she is doing is okay. I think it is highly disrespectful, and if you are in a committed relationship it is cheating. However, you knew about her lifestyle when you met her. Thats like me liking chocolate milk, and you knew this. Then when we are together you expect me to just stop liking chocolate milk. It just doesn't work like that. I would say that you need to stop swinging for the time being if you wish to continue your relationship. ALOT of communication needs to happen with her. However, in all honesty it sounds like you have expressed your displeasure many times to no avail. If she cannot give you what you need in your relationship then you have to decide where to go from there.
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