[JustAskJulie]

I know this has been asked before but I don't know if it was on here or in an email I received. A friend of mine just asked me for my advice when it comes to having her first gangbang and it made me think of it. She said she had looked here and couldn't find any info so I thought I'd remedy that. (I may also write an article at some point for the "info" pages of the site).

The advice I'm about to give is based on my personal experiences. I hope that if you have had experiences with this you will provide your own input as well.

- Choose your guys wisely. If possible find guys that you know are used to performing in group situations. There are GB groups all over the country and usually the guys who are members of these groups have experience in doing GB's and therefore will probably give YOU a more pleasurable experience.

- If you are planning the GB yourself and trying to line up guys. Make sure you line up at least 3 times as many as you want to show up. IF you want a 5 guy GB invite 15 guys to join you. Chances are that 10 of those 15 guys won't show. And if you have a few extra it will make up for any guys who have performance anxiety in group situations.

-Remember to make sure the focus is on YOU (the female). With so many guys there is no way you can please them all and if you try too hard you won't have any fun. SO let them focus on pleasing you and they will be pleased in the process.

- Set any rules on the table before any play starts. If you are open to anything except anal make sure they know that your butt is off limits before things start getting wild and guys just start sticking things in any available holes.

-Don't overplan. The mistake I made the first time out was that I made my first GB this huge production. I had met all the guys previously which helped but it didn't keep me from being nervous. We all met at a bar then went back to my hotel room. The evening was fun but the planning and WORK involved really took away from it. My policy now is that if it happens great, but I won't PLAN a gb.

That's all I can think of for now. Again if you've been there/done that and have your advice to add, please do. If this is something you are thinking of and have questions, fire away.