 Re: Confused.
Are you two ready for this lifestyle? In a word NO...A big fat NO.
She said she would never swing. Okay not a problem. It's not for everyone. But then she goes and cheats? And make no mistake, this was cheating. She did not have permission, you were not in this together, and to me IMO it sounds as if she took advantage of the fact that you brought this up and hopes you won't be mad. But it's cheating no two ways out of that.
THEN she says she could live with being with other men, but she couldn't live with you being with other women. This smacks of hypocrisy if you ask me. You wanted to swing...she wanted to cheat. Now she wants your permission to do it in the future.
But I agree with Sexyshelby, it doesn't sound like she is mature enough to handle any relationship at this time.
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