The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Ok for her to see other guys but not for him to be with other women

sexyshelby · 10-17-2006, 10:08 PM

Are you ready? No. But, maybe you could be after some more talking...
She said she didn't want to do it, then got drunk and cheated on you...and without protection. You two need to have a serious talk about why this happened.

You feel hurt because she cheated on you, and you should feel hurt. Did you ask her why it is ok for her to see other guys, but not for you to see other women??? This is a big red flag and, to me, shows that she is not mature enough to handle a swinging relationship, or any relationship for that matter...

~SS

10-17-2006, 10:08 PM	#3 (permalink)
sexyshelby It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person	Re: Confused. Are you ready? No. But, maybe you could be after some more talking... She said she didn't want to do it, then got drunk and cheated on you...and without protection. You two need to have a serious talk about why this happened. You feel hurt because she cheated on you, and you should feel hurt. Did you ask her why it is ok for her to see other guys, but not for you to see other women??? This is a big red flag and, to me, shows that she is not mature enough to handle a swinging relationship, or any relationship for that matter... ~SS
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