Hi, this is what I'd do: go to the local x-rated store and pick up swinger's books dedicated to ads for swingers. Look at all the ads and pictures and you'll see that there are people for everyone!.......Probably someone looking for you guys!! If you don't see someone YOU like ~~~~~~INSERT YOUR OWN AD and say waht you are looking for. ...Puts you in the driver's seat and makes people come to you. AND I'D Also call local swing clubs and ask them if their club is a "fat friendly " club and open to lg sz people. I'm assuming you're researched all the swinger's sites. Do not give up, swinging can be a very fun fulfilling new adventure in your life.....warning tho::: once you try it, you won't want to go back to the regular world and be a non swinger!!
>>>>NOTE: Because I got tired of driving forever here in Calif to go to a club......party like a fool, hot tub to beat sixty and then ahve to drive forever to get home; when I was single and over 200 pounds I STARTED MY OWN CLUB!!!! & got to pick and choose from a big buffet of men!!! If all else fails and I know it won't fail........host a party yourself and screen the people who attend!!
hugzzzzz, go for it!