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Old 10-13-2006, 02:13 PM   #14 (permalink)
ShellyM
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Location: San Marcos, TEXAS
Status: On the prowl for man meat
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Default Re: Need Experienced Opinions

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Originally Posted by NandTfromCA
Before you start thinking too much of leaving your wife for swinging, talk to some single guys who are in the swinging scene. Find out how difficult it is for a strapping, professional, 25 year old male to find people to play with. Also, find out how difficult it is to find single women who are swingers. It may make you rethink the value of your relationship.
Why is that, I wonder? I know for Jay and I, I prefer men over 30 years of age. I don't know why, personal preference I suppose. I guess since they are closer to my own age of 34. But I think alot of people are like that. In my own personal experience I have found, and this is jmo, that it takes men time to acquire the wisdom and maturity needed to really satisfy a woman sexually. Young men are like bulls, and they last a long time from jump. An older man may not be able to "hang" (forgive the pun) with the younger men as far as erections go and such, but they surely are great when it comes to knowing what women like and how to please them. I have heard so many great things about men in their 40s! I think it fathoms people as to why a lot of women love men in their 40s and 50s, but its because they are so in tune to women's bodies and what they need and like.
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