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Originally Posted by NandTfromCA 1. You can leave your wife, and call yourself a swinger…only to find that you are getting laid much less than you did while you were married...and that you miss this person you invitested so much of your life with. |
I can tell you swinging as a single male is not easy. I wouldn't even call it swinging. Swinging is about sharing what you have (significant other) with someone else. If you're doing it alone it's just fucking around. The only guys I've seen that were successful at pulling it off were either wealthy, or hung like two horses. And even then most couples won't have much to do with you because they figure you fuck around so much, that you might be a health risk.
Your best bet is to just spill your guts and come up with some kind of solution. She already went to a nude beach topless so maybe there's something there she's not telling you.