[cuzzeyesaidso]

I have had a similar situation in my first marriage. I started swinging when I was 14. Didn't know it was swinging then, but I knew what I saw on those porn videos looked fun and I wanted in on some of the action. Me and my girlfriend hooked up a few 3somes and orgies and all that wonderful stuff.

Fast forward to 1994 and now I'm married (different girl), in the Navy stationed in Pearl Harbor. I brought up to my wife what I was into and what I had hoped we could do sexually and she was all for it.....at first. Her eye opener was seeing me with another woman for the first time. All hell broke loose and the marriage was basically drug out for 7 years. The last 6 of those years we didn't do any swinging at all. Hell if I stared at a Victoria's Secret commercial for too long then something must be up (I wish). She had it stuck in her head that I wasn't satisfied with her and wanted to be with every other woman I saw. I did confess my love for Halle Berry. She understood and let me have that one.

My biggest mistake was not telling her from the beginning what I was into and how I wanted things to be,which is what I did with my current wife a week after I met her. Our 1st Anniversary is in two weeks.

My gut tell me that you wanted to try this lifestyle for a long time. Alot longer than what you're telling us here. Suppressing your desires the way I did is finally getting to you and, for me at least, it wasn't a matter of having to do it, but would she agree to it and at least give it one good try.

Does that make sense?