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Originally Posted by InNY It been mostly females who have responded so I would like to get some guys perspective on this too to see if its along the same lines. |
Here is the perspective of a guy for you:
My marriage is far more exciting and sexual than swinging is. I have the perfect wife and would never jeopardize that for another piece of ass. Plain and simple. If she did not agree with this, I wouldn't do it.
There is going to be a point in my life where I am not going to be able to swing much - age, life changes, whatever - they are coming. And when they do, I like the thought that I will have this wonderful, giving, loving woman to spend the rest of a relatively quiet life with. I actually look forward to being that sweet old couple that still seems so in love.
Swinging is a great fantasy - and the reality is pretty good, too. But I can assure you - having done this for quite a while now - only a fool would trade a marriage for swinging. There are plenty of ways to "branch out" and to spice things up without inviting someone else to your bed. Quit obsessing over this one path and start exploring others - together.
Spoomonkey