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Old 10-12-2006, 09:13 PM   #5 (permalink)
ShellyM
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In responding to the OP,
It sounds like you and your wife have been married for a long time, and have spent many great years together. I have to agree with Julie's post on this.....you have to weigh what it is worth. Imagine your life without your wife in it. Is swinging worth that? Is sex worth that? If she is dead set against it than that is her right to be that way. You cannot force her to do something she does not want to do...because even if she says yes she'll do it to save her marriage, she will end up resenting you for it. I would sit and think about what your life would be like if you sacrificed your marriage for any lifestyle or relationship. This is not for everyone, and that is fine. She is not bad for not wanting to do it, because that is her right to say yes or no. Anyways, best of luck to you.
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