Hi All-
The Mrs. here. Thanks for all your input.
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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey So - I would have simply teamed up with my wife and kept the play between the two of us. I would have turned the entire scenario into soft-swing. If they objected, I would say that was our preferred way of playing "right now" and leave it at that... |
This is brilliant. Absolutely brilliant! Why didn't we think of this that night? It's definitely something we'll use in the future. Thank you, Spoonmonkey, from the bottom of my bleeding little heart.
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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey My suggestion would be to distance yourself from swinging right now. Don't visit your ad site - maybe even take a break from here (though this will undoubtedly be a place where you will find support and encouragement) - and definitely just put things on the back burner. |
I think this is important, especially until we have a chance to reconnect. And, thanks to you, tonight is looking good. Really good. Thank you for your words of wisdon...
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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey Discuss new "rules" and ways that you will avoid that in the future. |
Mr. Funcpl here.
Someone once said on this board that half the fun is finding out what the other couple is made of. I say bullshit. I appreciate difference, but not deception. Any suggestions on what questions to ask? "Ummm, excuse me, but could you please tell my wife about your cock?" C'mon. And how do you reasure someone else without tooting your own horn? Aren't men that do are immediately suspect?
Mrs: I agree. This trial and error thing is getting way out of hand for us. And is extremely time consuming! :surrender I
used to consider myself a fairly good judge of character. I
used to believe that most people tell the truth. Shit! I hate growing up.
Thanks again. We are both very glad to have found the board and appreciate the time you took to respond. Any more suggestions on "the interview" would be much appreciated, as this seems to be our biggest problem.
Mr. & Mrs. Funcpl