 Re: Stuck Between 2 Worlds
i think the nudist thing would by great for you and evryone starting out. It is a great ice breaker and a way into the lifestyle. We started swinging with a friend couple, kind of out of the blue. It started with playing adult oriented games and then grew more and more till we were swinging. It was a wounderful journey and a safe way in with out all the formalities of how people say it should go. I believe this is like any lifestyle, you have to go at your pace and comfort level, if you rush, you are looking for trouble. Believe me we are not only swingers but into the BDSM lifestyle as well, and that has been a real rollercoaster to get into, because people were telling us this is how it goes and that is it, it is only through talking to people one on one that the truth comes out, noone is the master of any of this, and to follow your own gut on what you want. That is the best way to go. That way there are no regretes. Also always communicate with your SO so that noone is feeling left out or building resentments. If something is too over the top for either then it ends
2 yeses=yes 1yes+1no=NO
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