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Old 10-10-2006, 04:39 PM   #7 (permalink)
Tybee Swing
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Default Re: Completely bent out of shape

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Originally Posted by classi_chassis
Seemed great, things went well, we got naggie and got in the hot tub, well he was a two minute marithon man (if that)... I was like on nooooooooooo, this can't be happening......then he moved to the other side of the hot tub and told me he was thru, I was stunned, she was wanting to go hot and heavy with my SO, I went in the house to the bathroom, came back, he had joined in with my SO and his, I just looked at them and the total scene...told them this isn't working out and you need to leave. They were not up front with us, he after I asked them to leave told my SO that he can't last long, that is why they swing??? Have you run into this, also? I felt totally used and not wanted.
I've run into 2-minute man before. In our case, we were in a hotel room. He's the kind that when he's done he's DONE. He went to a chair and turned on the TV, seeming to be disinterested in what was going on. Yuck! However, in this case, his wife, my husband and I went on and on in 3some fashion, and my husband made sure I was satisfied. LAST time with them, though!

I've never heard of a couple using the guy's quick-draw problem as their excuse or reason to swing. Sounds very selfish. He should know that if he can't last long enough to make sure the woman is satisfied, he should satisfy her in other ways!

Another thought: if he was really done, why would he have jumped in on his wife and your husband's action? That doesn't sound done. Sounds fishy.
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