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ohash01 · 10-10-2006, 04:05 PM

I definately agree with the first 2 posters...reconnect with each other first. It's always hard when you get SO excited and then find out there is a problem. Which is probably why the letdown is so much more painful.

It was definately a tough situation...especially with the fact that you had no good "out". I'm now using your story as an example as to why atleast one of us should stay sober-ish. I hate feeling trapped and being in that situation probably would have sent me into panic-attack mode.

It's always tough...it's like dating again...you will have dates so disappointing that you want to just curl up under the covers and hide for 2 years. But since you're already lucky and have one another...use that. Be there for one another. Re-infoce the fact that as a couple you are sexy and fun and worthwhile. I wish you all the luck in the world in whichever path you choose.

10-10-2006, 04:05 PM	#4 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: Completely bent out of shape I definately agree with the first 2 posters...reconnect with each other first. It's always hard when you get SO excited and then find out there is a problem. Which is probably why the letdown is so much more painful. It was definately a tough situation...especially with the fact that you had no good "out". I'm now using your story as an example as to why atleast one of us should stay sober-ish. I hate feeling trapped and being in that situation probably would have sent me into panic-attack mode. It's always tough...it's like dating again...you will have dates so disappointing that you want to just curl up under the covers and hide for 2 years. But since you're already lucky and have one another...use that. Be there for one another. Re-infoce the fact that as a couple you are sexy and fun and worthwhile. I wish you all the luck in the world in whichever path you choose.