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Originally Posted by Funcpl647 We left the next morning feeling ashamed, guilty, disgusted, pissed off, lied to and anything but sexy. We haven't had sex with each other since. Now what? Your opinions and advice please.
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I'm so sorry for you two! We too had a bad experience very early on, after which we took a break from swinging for awhile to think things through, learn more about what we'd do different if we did it over, what we'd do next time, etc. This break was just the thing we needed, and it's been so much better since then. In fact, that was about the time we discovered this board. Reading through other people's situations and relating to them helped us a lot.
I agree with Spoomonkey, just focus on the two of you for now, and get back on track sexually and emotionally between
you two. How about make a very romantic plan, something guaranteed to make you feel close and connected to each other? As a married couple, you two know what that is, for you.
Hugs and best wishes!