Re: Where did we go wrong?
It took us over three (3) years to be with another couple in the same room. We do not go alone, at all. But now we are comfortable with other couples. I leave everything up to my lady(fiancee). She calls the shots and who we can or should not be with. She knows me very well and knows what I like. But I can also just sit back and watch thing develope with the ladies, without me getting involved. We have meet a ton load of people and couples, we own our own swingers club, but we are friends totally with. In the 6 years we have been in the lifestyle we have been with only 3 other couples and one of those where with the previous owners of the club. It takes time for everyone involved to feel and get comfortable with all envolved. Especially the ladies. Men can jump in on any gal, he he just feels like it. I found men not to be as picky as ladies are and maybe that is good. They protect us men alot of the time in that area. THANK YOU LADIES
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