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Because we aren't willing to perform some of the same acts, we were told that they don't think they can continue doing anything with us sexually. I say "too bad for you" and let's find another couple that understands what it is we are looking for. Is this too confining? Are we not "good swingers" because we won't bend our boundaries (at least not yet)? Is there such a thing as "taking too long?"
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As a couple
you decide what is right and what is wrong for
you. Keep in mind this also means couples you play with also have that right to decide what is right for
them. Everyone decides from what is communicated verbally and nonverbally who will or could be a match for them. This couple has decided they don't like the way things are going.
You are not "bad" swingers. You are not "taking too long". But I do agree with a prior poster given your boundaries we wouldn't be interested in playing with you either.
Boundaries and rules are set to make your play time fun for
you, enjoy but also don't fault others if they decide you are not for them because of those boundaries and rules.
