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Originally Posted by azcpl01 In one of the play dates the female performed a little bit of oral on me (the male). This was within our boundaries, but we had also decided that we were not at a point where she would reciprocate. Again, we are in this for her to experiment with females. It is more than enough for me to fondle both women and then have same room sex with my wife while being watched.
Because we aren't willing to perform some of the same acts, we were told that they don't think they can continue doing anything with us sexually. I say "too bad for you" and let's find another couple that understands what it is we are looking for. Is this too confining? Are we not "good swingers" because we won't bend our boundaries (at least not yet)? Is there such a thing as "taking too long?" |
I'm chiming in with the chorus. Where you went "wrong", if you want to call it that, is that if you're interested in FF play, why do you get to fondle both women, or get a blow job? FF play means that just the females play. It sounds like 3/4 swap to me...and most couples aren't into that, just because it's not an even deal.
I don't think you're bad swingers, but with your next playmates, don't allow them to do things with you that you're not willing to reciprocate.
Pepper