 Re: Where did we go wrong?
I agree with everyone else. You are not bad swingers, but I do think your messages to them might have gotten a little mixed up. By saying you are soft swap FF play only, and then letting the wife give you a bj, you may have sent a message to them that was interpreted as you were ready to move forward, and when you didn't it upset them. I see your position, and when stated clearly, you will have no problem finding other partners. But you must remain constant in your actions. Nothing wrong with either of you. Perhaps its like any other relationship and you ended up wanting two separate things.
I would say, wish them the best in their search for another couple, and start looking elsewhere yourself. There are plenty of couples out there.
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