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I gotta wonder if the whole bj thing was a test. If they didn't decide to push it a little and ust to see what would happen and once they found out that this is not going any further decided to break it off. I gotta admit my only real fear and the one thing that might tick me off is if the other guy is allowed to do something or get something that I am not allowed to do or get. I don't think that your wrong. But more likely the other couple is just wanting more and your not able to give it to them. I don't think they are wrong either. I just wonder why they let it go on so long if they were wanting more this whole time. A year is a loooong time to wait. It seems to me maybe give it a little bit, try a few times then if it is not moving at the pace we want we would move on rather quickly.