 Re: Where did we go wrong?
It's important that your actions match your words. Like Spoo said the confusion probably came from your actions - you recieved a bj from her, and it's ok for you to touch both women... but your wife wans't going to give anyone but you (or the female) anything... and I'm guessing it probably also wasn't ok for the other guy to touch your wife? So from there, yes it's understandable that another couple might get a)confused and b) a little annoyed.
Everyone sets their own boundaries and that's ok. But there are a couple of things that are very imporatant the firs tone is being very clear about your boundaries with every one you play with and that means both in words and in actions. You didn't do anything wrong so much as you just didn't know what to do.
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