 Re: Where did we go wrong?
I definately do not think you are bad swingers at all. Every couple sets their own comfort levels. I don't think either of you are wrong to be honest. I think you are on different levels of comfort zones, and this does happen. We were going to meet with a couple that are on completely different levels from where we are....although I think they are great people we ended up not playing with them. It is about their fantasy and your fantasy. But if you aren't ready to go where they need to go then I think you just are not sexually compatible at this time. It doesn't make you wrong or bad! You just aren't at the same place right now. So, I would say hey, we can still be friends, and find a couple that is where you are as far as comfort zones go.
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