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Originally Posted by randdypop it will be ok but it would be more real if you did it at one of your own homes not hiding away in a hotel room like it was a bad thing to do good look :  |
Thanks for uh well.... nothing acutually. It was very nice of you to condem us or what we did and how we did it without knowing anything about us.
The reason we went to a hotel, by the way it's wasn't a red roof inn or something it was a 4 diamond resort where we had suites. Neither of us really knew each other and they being our first couple were nice enough to not want to pressure us on our first time. The area we went to is filled with clubs and little bars and stuff so we could all go dancing and have dinner and really see by the end of the night if we were ready to go through with it. To top it all off we wanted our first time to be special and this was kinda like a little vacation. Where we could go and feel special. We started the night with and nice dinner out and afterwords back at their room with a bottle of champange and strawberrys just to congratulate oursleves on having the guts to get this far. With the hotel rooms if something didn't feel right or we got scared we could always just go to our own room and that would be it. It worked out perfect. BTW we also both have kids and we have small kids so we really wanted to get to know them better before we brought them into our house to see pictures of kids and stuff and they felt the same way. The best thing was that my wife felt special with the pampering of a suite and champange and a nice night out. The girls were in seventh heaven by the end of the night with all the pampering that us guys did. It said the mood and we all needed that. Maybe your ok with just "ya'll come on over and will screw" and that is fine if you are as we are not judgeing you, but we needed more than that it was or first time and my wifes first time with a girl and it needed to be special. Just to let you know we have set up a date for our next meeting and it will be at our house for a nice dinner and then a whole bunch of fun so I hope that meets you aproval and is real enough.