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Old 10-04-2006, 08:21 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Default Re: The popularity of MFM among guys

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Originally Posted by WesternSwing
I have read that 40% of respondents to sex surveys list a threesome as their number one fantasy. From what I've also read, and experienced, I would have to say that for men it is a FMF fantasy. Being treated like a king, and as one married vanilla friend of ours put it: "I don't want another man mowing my grass." I think jealousy is the biggest reason these men want a FMF but not a MFM... at least not with their SO, but they'll have no problem being in a MFM with someone else's SO.
I would have to agree that I think most "vanilla" guys would love to be the male in a 3some, but not having some other guy in a 3some for their wife is a jealous thing.

For me, I don't make a very good male for a female 3some. I am way too much of a giver to just sit back and be taken care of. During a male 3some, I can conentrate 100% of my attention on my wife and really enjoy it. During a female 3some, I just have way too much to please and I can wear myself out.

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