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Originally Posted by northindycpl Now on the other hand, as badly as this sounds, I would have no issue at all entering into double-standard land. In fact, I have really started to enjoy MFM's a lot more then I ever thought I would....
....Do you guys think this is a phase or symptomatic of an underlying issue- or am I over analysizing it to death?  |
Wait a minute, since when do people on this forum put up with double standards? Looks like I'll have to take things into my own hands. Bad, Mrs. Indy!
You haven't mentioned how Mr. Indy feels about all this. I suspect he is not happy, and I can't blame him. If you keep the MFM going without 100% buy-in from him, you might as well kiss your marital bliss goodbye.
As far as the problem itself, I think it's probably a phase AND an underlying issue, maybe self-esteem? Also, I don't understand why the other posters are warning you to watch out for single women. If you can't trust your husband to resist the Sirens, maybe you shouldn't swing.