Shelly I would have to agree with you there. As far as comfort levels from BOTH of us...we look for not only couples, but couples who are in love with each other. We don't want drama, we don't want someone to get a crush on either of us, and we don't want to deal with the possible jealousy issues that arise from it.
For now, what fantasies we have with FMF or MFM we get from the wonderful couples we know