Mrs Indy, yes I have had times that I felt the same. I think it has alot to do with what is happening in your own lives...sometimes with me, even the time of the month. With hormonal changes, I will sometimes get sad and need a little extra attention from the MR...it's those times I really don't wanna share him at all.
At one point it seemed like we were constantly going to clubs, meeting people, having friends over, etc. and it just got to be too much. Through no fault but my own I felt pressure to "perform", which was actually kind of a turn off. I really needed a break from it all so we did. Later when I felt better we resumed.
Things change, it's all part of life, and I wouldn't have it any other way
