[ShellyM]

Okay, I'd vote average/thick. Anyways, I just would not take much store in the whole size thing. I've said this before. Now, I'm pretty new as a swinger, but not new as a woman lol. I have just never looked at a man in my life and wondered if he was long and thick lol. No joke. It is important to some women I suppose, but I think its more of a status symbol almost, but perhaps I am wrong. My initial gauge are a few things. I love men's eyes, a man who takes care of his hair and smells nice. I love men's arms. Hell, I love men's shapes in general lol. But I never say to myself "I wonder if he is packing 8 inches", lol, I seriously don't. But hey, whatever floats your boat I suppose.