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laptop_c · 10-01-2006, 02:45 PM

Wife and I are newbies to the swinging world and are exploring our options.

We been close friends with this awesome couple for the past 1 year. We get along great as a foursome and even with each other as individuals. Over the past year we have been out on numerous trips and weekend getaways and its always been awesome fun. As our friendship has evolved over time, our interactions have become very flirtatious with lots of sexual innuendos going back and forth!

The good news is that my wife and I have done a lot of talking with each other and we have both recieved enough hints from our friends to take it to the next level. It seems clear to me and my wife that if we push ahead, we will end up sleeping with them but we also have the option to back away if we think it could undermine anything we have with each other or them currently.

For my wife and I the sexual part of it has become one of our best fantasies when making love. We like what we have. Our fantasies are great and have spiced up our life but we both seem to want more. My wife thinks swinging with someone so close might have its issues be she also thinks she'll be more comfortable doing it with the other male than a stranger since she knows him well. I feel the same way both for her comfort and mine.

As for the friendship, Its a great friendship but our friends also have definitive plans to move overseas for good in about 6 months time. So we are not so sure about the long term continuation of our vanilla friendship. It is very likely that we might loose touch with them once they move or definitely not remain as close. So we are a bit on the fence and leaning towards going for it.

So what do you guys think, should we go for it or back out and just focus on maintaining the vanilla friendship. Please advise...

10-01-2006, 02:45 PM	#1 (permalink)
laptop_c Registered Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 4 Location: California	Swinging with Friends Wife and I are newbies to the swinging world and are exploring our options. We been close friends with this awesome couple for the past 1 year. We get along great as a foursome and even with each other as individuals. Over the past year we have been out on numerous trips and weekend getaways and its always been awesome fun. As our friendship has evolved over time, our interactions have become very flirtatious with lots of sexual innuendos going back and forth! The good news is that my wife and I have done a lot of talking with each other and we have both recieved enough hints from our friends to take it to the next level. It seems clear to me and my wife that if we push ahead, we will end up sleeping with them but we also have the option to back away if we think it could undermine anything we have with each other or them currently. For my wife and I the sexual part of it has become one of our best fantasies when making love. We like what we have. Our fantasies are great and have spiced up our life but we both seem to want more. My wife thinks swinging with someone so close might have its issues be she also thinks she'll be more comfortable doing it with the other male than a stranger since she knows him well. I feel the same way both for her comfort and mine. As for the friendship, Its a great friendship but our friends also have definitive plans to move overseas for good in about 6 months time. So we are not so sure about the long term continuation of our vanilla friendship. It is very likely that we might loose touch with them once they move or definitely not remain as close. So we are a bit on the fence and leaning towards going for it. So what do you guys think, should we go for it or back out and just focus on maintaining the vanilla friendship. Please advise...