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Jeepgurly · 09-28-2006, 12:09 AM

It looks like my opinion is in the minority here might even stand alone but here goes.

His relationship is not my responsibility. My only loyalty lies to my husband and his to me. I would let my friend worry about his own relationship and allow him to set the stage for how we should act or how much we should say.

I was in a similar situation with a couple of friends of ours and we had had a 4 some with them but truthfully she was such a drag it was better without her and we did it without her all the time. At the time they were just dating and he was not serious about her, so we did it behind her back. And although it probably wasn't the right thing to do I feel no regret because we had a good time and that was the main objective, their relationship problems or his dishonesty is not our problem. We don't think of the other person or couple in any way other then an enhancement for us really. So although they were/are our friends I feel like what goes on with them is their business not mine.

09-28-2006, 12:09 AM	#22 (permalink)
Jeepgurly Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 21 Location: nowheresville Status: Married Female	Re: When 2 + 2 = 3. It looks like my opinion is in the minority here might even stand alone but here goes. His relationship is not my responsibility. My only loyalty lies to my husband and his to me. I would let my friend worry about his own relationship and allow him to set the stage for how we should act or how much we should say. I was in a similar situation with a couple of friends of ours and we had had a 4 some with them but truthfully she was such a drag it was better without her and we did it without her all the time. At the time they were just dating and he was not serious about her, so we did it behind her back. And although it probably wasn't the right thing to do I feel no regret because we had a good time and that was the main objective, their relationship problems or his dishonesty is not our problem. We don't think of the other person or couple in any way other then an enhancement for us really. So although they were/are our friends I feel like what goes on with them is their business not mine.