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SuAndBud · 09-27-2006, 01:45 PM

Stage Two:

We seem to be getting somewhere. J told D about us being "wannabee" swingers but didn't volunteer that we've already swung with him and she didn't ask.

D said she's intrigued and the thought of playing with us turns her on big-time. Good sign.

J's sort of trapped himself now into not admiting he's already played with Su. He says it's likely D would feel betrayed if she found out now.

When we speak with J on the phone, we often speak to D, too and we all flirt outrageously. Text exchanges between the four of us actually get pretty explicit at times.

We're both very discreet as is he, but we do worry about her figuring out for herself that we've already "been there - done that" if and when we do play together as a foursome.

It's a bit like when you're a teenager and think you've got this sign above your head that proclaims you to be a virgin to non-virgins (if you get our drift). If and when she swings with us is she going to notice how natural we are with each other's limits? Do we steer clear of performing our favourite J and Bud and Su DP session until we've gotten the first time over with?

09-27-2006, 01:45 PM	#17 (permalink)
SuAndBud Has Left the Building Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 293 Location: UK Status: Couple	Re: When 2 + 2 = 3. Stage Two: We seem to be getting somewhere. J told D about us being "wannabee" swingers but didn't volunteer that we've already swung with him and she didn't ask. D said she's intrigued and the thought of playing with us turns her on big-time. Good sign. J's sort of trapped himself now into not admiting he's already played with Su. He says it's likely D would feel betrayed if she found out now. When we speak with J on the phone, we often speak to D, too and we all flirt outrageously. Text exchanges between the four of us actually get pretty explicit at times. We're both very discreet as is he, but we do worry about her figuring out for herself that we've already "been there - done that" if and when we do play together as a foursome. It's a bit like when you're a teenager and think you've got this sign above your head that proclaims you to be a virgin to non-virgins (if you get our drift). If and when she swings with us is she going to notice how natural we are with each other's limits? Do we steer clear of performing our favourite J and Bud and Su DP session until we've gotten the first time over with?