The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Younger male neighbor has expressed interest, not sure if this is a good idea.

Dooode · 09-15-2006, 12:25 PM

WOW. "The Graduate" revisited.

I have swung with my next-door neighbors before, and our relationship has lasted throughout all these years ... even tho we're not neighbors anymore (I was just talking to the husband last night, as a matter of fact).

But it's not something that I recommend. Too many things can potentially go wrong.

I have also swung with ... umm ... "young adults" let's call them, and I find the generation gap to be so wide that to me it's like a visit to a different solar system. When you ask "Do you have any Fleetwood Mac?" and you get the reply "Who's Fleetwood Mac?" when you know you're on different planes of existence. So I stick to my own age group, 10 years either way from my own age.

So far as a male teen of 18yo goes, I remember what I was like when I was 18 ... and anything with two legs and a pair of breasts was lusted after (flash some skin and it was some good masturbation material!). And so that's what I perceive this as: teenage lust. Nothing more than hormones a-ragin'.

I personally don't like the scenerio that Rachel painted, and were I in her shoes, I would be flattered but I wouldn't touch it with a ten-foot pole.

09-15-2006, 12:25 PM	#7 (permalink)
Dooode Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 281 Location: Florida Status: Single Male	Re: Younger neighbor interesting time or trouble? WOW. "The Graduate" revisited. I have swung with my next-door neighbors before, and our relationship has lasted throughout all these years ... even tho we're not neighbors anymore (I was just talking to the husband last night, as a matter of fact). But it's not something that I recommend. Too many things can potentially go wrong. I have also swung with ... umm ... "young adults" let's call them, and I find the generation gap to be so wide that to me it's like a visit to a different solar system. When you ask "Do you have any Fleetwood Mac?" and you get the reply "Who's Fleetwood Mac?" when you know you're on different planes of existence. So I stick to my own age group, 10 years either way from my own age. So far as a male teen of 18yo goes, I remember what I was like when I was 18 ... and anything with two legs and a pair of breasts was lusted after (flash some skin and it was some good masturbation material!). And so that's what I perceive this as: teenage lust. Nothing more than hormones a-ragin'. I personally don't like the scenerio that Rachel painted, and were I in her shoes, I would be flattered but I wouldn't touch it with a ten-foot pole.