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Originally Posted by P and R :As we "crawl" into the lifestyle inch by inch, we seem to find a lot of people who have no respect for their bodies, minds, or souls. |
I'm sorry but comments like this just get me worked up. Making assumptions that people who are not as fit as you are, or in shape or ‘Hot Bodies’ have no respect for their bodies, minds or soul is the most closed minded opinionated comment I have ever heard. Guess what I don't have a perfect body, I can exercise every day, eat next to nothing and pray to all the skinny gods I can think of but I will never be a thin bikini wearing woman. Genetically it just isn't in the cards. I have big hips...oh wait, so does my mother...hmm so does her mother (do you see a trend here), throw in having one child there for good measure. I have a hard time losing weight, always have. I actually eat very healthy and try to work out as much as possible. But it doesn’t make me some slag who doesn’t give a shit about what I do to myself.
I think you are going to have a harder time than you think finding people to hook up with if this is the way you judge them.
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nothing wrong with wanting to play with people who are not overweight, the same age, etc. We all have our own preferences and I can completely respect that. It is when you start making judgements on people you don’t know that makes you seem very shallow. I’m still not sure what you consider a REAL person?
I would have to say, just from my own experience, the swingers that we tend to hook up with are our age (I’m 34), have had one or more children so have mommy tummies and stretch marks to prove it. Very few of them have perfect bodies, but aren’t obese either. But they are as fun and as sexy as any woman out there.
Sometimes you have to, as Western Swing suggested, broaden your search parameters. I find that meeting someone in person is 100% better than an on line add, some people don’t photograph well (like me), and sometimes a personality can make all the difference.