 Re: Is this common?
If the problem is nerves, a pill isn't going to fix it. First, don't worry that it's you. It's simply the result of stress. When us guys are thrown into a new situation it often creates stress. First thing stress does, is reduce blood flow to the extremities. I know for a fact stress is much stronger than a pill. I usually take Cialis on the weekends, so that I'm not worried about my reaction. One night at a club, I got volunteered to enter a sexy man contest. Meaning I had to get up on stage and do a strip tease for the crowd. I'm definitely not one who enjoys the spotlight. Luck of the draw, I ended up next to last to dance. Before the contest, I was walking around at half mast, no problems at all. A good stiff breeze and I'd have broken my zipper. By the time I had to get on stage, I looked like my genitalia was the creation of Michelangelo. Stress. After it was all over, everything returned to normal.
If the guy is having problems, change the subject. Do something to get his and your mind off of it. Tell jokes, play charades, or 20 questions. Just help him to relax and stop worrying about sex. Once you get hime relaxed, the problem will usually go away.
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