 Re: Is this common?
Wouldn't it be great if both sexes could see the other perspective?
If a guy can obtain and maintain a good erection, it's commonly considered that he's "a real man" and that he has incredible control of his sex bits.
If he can't it's often commonly considered to be a failing on his part and he's less of a man.
If a woman is well lubricated and has a stiff clitoris it's commonly considered that the guy she's with is "a real man" and by elliciting such a response has incredible control over her bits. If she isn't aroused it's 'coz he's less stimulating.
What broad shoulders the poor guys need.
Maybe these things just happen and Bud knows from experience that when it happens once, it's more likely to happen again as it's playing on his mind prior to his next encounter.
It's invariably mental and not physical as five minutes after the event, the guy could often pogo into town on his third leg.
The only answer Bud can offer is for the guy to maybe pop a Viagra or similar. A memorable example of which was when Bud did that one time half an hour before the activities were to start. He had no problem maintaining a hard-on and slept soundly, peacefully and gratefully afterwards. When he went to the bathroom in the morning, guess what was staring up at him from the soap shelf? The little blue libido enhancer he'd forgotten to take the previous evening. He'd actually made it through the night all on his own. Boy did that help with his self-esteem!
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