 Re: Is this common?
Thanks for your replies. In answer to Julie, we play in the same room. This last time was the exception because we all felt more comfortable in separate rooms. I don't think I focus too much on my hubby. I am usually focusing on my partner and helping him get an erection.
With the last guy, I admit I was nervous and I feel sure he was feeling a lot of pressure to perform. In hindsight we probably shouldn't have even attempted it.
It was all the previous instances that concerned me as well. I was beginning to get a complex. Getting an erection is never a problem for anyone while we dance or are in the club. Only afterward in the room. It is frustrating and confusing that's for sure.
After reading your responses, I feel much better. Not like I am some sort of freak! LOL!
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