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SuAndBud · 09-09-2006, 12:05 PM

They've already discussed swinging (albeit tentatively) and he says she gets very aroused when they're talking about swapping and sharing partners.

He hasn't told her that he's already got the tee-shirt, though so if he suddenly did, she's likely to feel she's already been deceived.

We've all got "skeletons" and it's perhaps better to let this one lie.

We've met up twice with her already (before they started their relationship) and seem to like each other very much.

Would it perhaps be better if he told her that Su and Bud are already in the lifestyle? This would at least test the water a little as her reaction would speak volumes and she might even engage Su in conversation about it when we meet socially. We are really not sure about him confessing all to her after him not mentioning it to her b4 in their 6 months together.

09-09-2006, 12:05 PM	#5 (permalink)
SuAndBud Has Left the Building Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 293 Location: UK Status: Couple	Re: When 2 + 2 = 3. They've already discussed swinging (albeit tentatively) and he says she gets very aroused when they're talking about swapping and sharing partners. He hasn't told her that he's already got the tee-shirt, though so if he suddenly did, she's likely to feel she's already been deceived. We've all got "skeletons" and it's perhaps better to let this one lie. We've met up twice with her already (before they started their relationship) and seem to like each other very much. Would it perhaps be better if he told her that Su and Bud are already in the lifestyle? This would at least test the water a little as her reaction would speak volumes and she might even engage Su in conversation about it when we meet socially. We are really not sure about him confessing all to her after him not mentioning it to her b4 in their 6 months together.