 Re: When 2 + 2 = 3.
I'm going to get my flame-retardant suit out flamethrow , but I'd let him decide. If the relationship is that important to him, he should tell her and he should be the one to decide when it's time to tell her. Dating someone, in my mind, isn't like being married. I wouldn't out-and-out lie, but I'd follow his lead on how much he'd like to share and when to share it. They may not be exclusive. They may be just enjoying each other's company, but not intensely serious. You don't know the details of their relationship (or at least you don't say if you do). Call me a heel, but we've had a similar situation with a good friend of ours. We consider him to be a very close friend and we have the understanding that he determines how much to tell any girl he dates. It's worked so far.
Pepper
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