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Originally Posted by JTcamp05 Give me a break!!!!.....So you as an adult married couple went to a swing club....and your wife as an adult wanted to have some fun....I would of course think thats the point of attending. Guess thats what she had in mind anyway.
Ohhh thats right she didn't follow "your" rules .... I would think that is a problem just for you and your wife to resolve....in private. Doesn't sound as if anyone else there did anything the least bit wrong, now why on earth would you consider causing a problem and screwing up everyone elses good time, becaume YOU have a problem with YOUR wife. |
I believe the OP was asking what should they do when a rule set down before going was broken. The rule broken I believe was that she played in a separate room when they had agreed to playing in the same room, and that she played with a couple they had decided not to play with. If I am wrong in the understanding of the OP or your post JT I apologize.
I don't think its about HIM having a problem with HER because she did not follow HIS rules. I think its about together THEY set the rules and then THEY were broken. Each couple has their own rules concerning same/different room, who to play with, but alot of it comes down to respect. And again, if I misunderstood someone here I apologize.
With the understanding I have of the OP, I would agree with Mrs. GT as well. Causing a scene in a club will simply make you and your wife look foolish. Best to simply say time to go, go home and sit down and discuss it reasonably. Many couples over the years of swinging alter their rules to accomodate their evolving and experience in this lifestyle. So discussing the why it was done is just as important as discussing what was done. Good luck to you two.