Is there a poll out there somewhere on this already? I'm thinking there probably is...
Mr. intuition and I, while we're not currently swinging and not in a poly relationship, have agreed that we are very open-minded about it. At least we are open to the
possibility of it. I want him to be happy, and he wants the same for me. There is no sense of ownership between us whatsoever. We're together because we choose to be, because we want to be. For no other reason. He has told me in no uncertain terms that if I ever wanted to develop another relationship, that he was perfectly okay with that...so long as I respected him by never lying to him about my needs and desires. He, of course, insists on complete honesty and expects me to be able to manage any other relationships in such a way as to not adversely affect the one that he and I share. I have reciprocated with the same deal for him.
I truly feel that I would not be jealous or unhappy should Mr. intuition find another person to add to his life. Quite the contrary, in fact. Anything that adds to his happiness adds to mine.
However, we've both decided together and as individuals that neither of us are interested in expending energy in that direction. We'd rather just work on the relationship we're in together for now.
So you tell us...are we poly?
