The Swingers Board - View Single Post - When do you let the other couple know your limits?

ohash01 · 09-04-2006, 06:45 PM

We have found that chatting outside of emails (yahoo, aim, phone) allows everyone to state their limits and discuss what, if we got close, would be negotiable. With the one couple we talk to the most, our very first live chat was pretty much nothing except "what DO you want, what DON'T you want".

As for the "cum" warning. You can tell them a billion times before you start, but from experience, men forget that you would like a warning, so tell him several times before AND ask him IN the process. "Are you close babe? Is this gonna make you cum? Tell me.".

I'm not sure if you have the same issue as I do, but if I'm not given warning, I had the tendency to get a little gaggy...however...if I am given warning I can adjust my tongue to kind of block the little hangy-ball that gets hit and makes me gag.

09-04-2006, 06:45 PM	#15 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: When do you set your limits with a couple? We have found that chatting outside of emails (yahoo, aim, phone) allows everyone to state their limits and discuss what, if we got close, would be negotiable. With the one couple we talk to the most, our very first live chat was pretty much nothing except "what DO you want, what DON'T you want". As for the "cum" warning. You can tell them a billion times before you start, but from experience, men forget that you would like a warning, so tell him several times before AND ask him IN the process. "Are you close babe? Is this gonna make you cum? Tell me.". I'm not sure if you have the same issue as I do, but if I'm not given warning, I had the tendency to get a little gaggy...however...if I am given warning I can adjust my tongue to kind of block the little hangy-ball that gets hit and makes me gag.