Hi.Mr.Telly2 here.
I can't deny the green stripe down our backs in this lifestyle,but it just seems logical to meet with potential playmates in "neutral teritory" first(coffee shop,park or whatever).That way there's time to feel each other out(not litterally) without unnessessary tension and be sure everyone knows what's No and what's Go.Should make for a more entertaining meet the next time.
Later,Gaters!